I made it! And this is going to sound odd, but it didn’t occur to me that visiting my future family, on my own, in a country a few thousand miles from my own, was going to be scary. At least not until I was on my way to the airport, throat closing up in apprehension.
A few hours after leaving New Delhi, I landed in Bangalore, and stood sweating my makeup off whilst I waited for my suitcase at the carousel. I think in all seriousness those few minutes will always number among the most anxious of my life.
Then the moment arrived. And to my great relief, it wasn’t at all as terrifying as I had imagined. A few handshakes and hugs, and that was it. I had introduced myself to N’s mother, brother-in-law, and nephew (who is far more frightened of me than I will ever be of him). The communication is not easy, since my Tamil is rather poor, my Telegu non-existent, and N’s mother does not speak much English, but I think so far I am doing more than okay. His sister and I get along very well, and I am head-over-heels for his one-year-old niece! ❤
We have had a lot of time to get to know each other, since we have spent much of our time driving. From Bangalore to Mysore. From Mysore to Ooty, and today the drive back from Ooty to Mysore (though for the latter I was so tired I slept most of it away).
Ooty is a popular place for tourists. With its eucalyptus forests, tea estates and lakes, its hairpin roads makes for some seriously scenic viewing. Even to get close we travelled through miles of lush green countryside, a stark contrast to the hustle of New Delhi. One thing I learnt during my time at Amity is that India is a country of many cultures, and this has become very apparent to me, since the place in which I now find myself is an entirely new world in which to find my feet.
Passing through several sanctuary areas, we saw signs warning cars not to stop due to the risk of bison, elephants, and tigers. I’m afraid we did not catch sight of the last one on that list, but we did see a wild elephant, peacocks, deer (maan in Tamil), and monkeys everywhere. I think they are a slightly different species to the ones I saw in Delhi. Allegedly these are better behaved, and less inclined to pick fights with tourists over food and phones, but I’m not sure I trust them enough to get too near 😉
Once in Ooty we visited the lake, where we enjoyed a boat trip, and then checked in at our hotel. In true Indian style, I found myself sharing a room with the whole family, but since I spent so much of my childhood sleeping at friends’ houses and talking through all hours of the night, it’s less to get used to than I thought it might be. In fact, the only thing I have really struggled with so far is getting used to eating without cutlery. I don’t mind using my hands, but for now, I’m an embarrassingly messy eater.
We also went to Doddabetta, which is the highest mountain in Tamil Nadu, and today up to Dolphin Nose, which offers the most fantastic view of the tea estates, a roaring waterfall, and the surrounding forests. It is home to a large troupe of (you guessed it!) monkeys, who were more than happy to pose for some photos.
A quick trip to the Chocolate Museum (Ooty is famous for its homemade produce), and to a hill overlooking Avalanche Lake – a popular site for movie shoots – and we started the drive back. On the way we also stopped to visit the local Hanuman temple – a cacophony of colours and smells.
So far, so good? I believe so.